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Book Club Bytes

This is another update on the books one of my book clubs has been discussing. I really enjoy reading about what other book clubs are doing, and talking about both of mine. The last update covered our books for my Book Club L from April to August 2010.

September

Real Life & LiarsReal Life & Liars by Kristina Riggle

I wrote up my review and book club notes at the time our group read Real Life & Liars.

I enjoyed the book and recommend it for book club discussion if your club is looking for a good example of women’s fiction (although I’d now recommend The Weird Sisters as just as good on the character front, but with a little more of a literary feel)

October

Cutting For Stone by Abraham Verghese

I kept putting off blogging about Cutting For Stone because I had trouble figuring out what to say.  This book is absolutely amazing, and made my Top 10 list for 2010.

It’s harder to say why.  Everything about the book is brilliantly executed.  I’ve never read a book that gave me such a look into another culture.  I loved the depth of all the characters, the major ones and the minor ones.  I loved the historical context.  I was stunned by the look at our medical system.  And so on.

I found this book to be a very slow read, but it wasn’t that I didn’t want to be reading it.  It was just so rich that I needed to savor it.

Book Club Notes

Everyone enjoyed the book, and we talked about the reasons why.  We didn’t have as rich of a discussion as I would have expected for two reasons.  One is that almost no one had finished the book, because it took much longer than expected even for a book of its size.  The other is that we met at an Ethiopian restaurant, which was an interesting and distracting experience in and of itself.

November

The Opposite of Me by Sarah Pekkanan

This is another character-oriented family drama, and I liked this one as well.  I like sister stories, and I found this one well executed.  I enjoyed the writing, and was not expecting a couple of the twists. The best part of the books was exploring the lifelong relationship between these women, and how it affected who each of them was.

Book Club Notes

Most (but not all) of the group enjoyed the book.  One group member found it much to predictable, saying that she’d seen the plot twists from the very beginning, and didn’t see anything else redeeming in the book.  Our lone male member was skeptical of the business storyline, and of how reliable our narrator was.

Overall, we found a lot to talk about in the relationship of the sisters and in the life choices they were making.

December

Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen

I reviewed Mennonite in a Little Black Dress when I read it a year ago. My review brought it to the attention of one of the book club members, who suggested it for discussion.

Book Club Notes

I think everyone enjoyed reading this book, and we appreciated the light-hearted yet respectful look at Janzen’s family and at Mennonite culture in general. The book had us talking about the characters and their motives and about our experiences with religious communities in general and with Mennonites we’ve known.

And that wraps up 2010 for this book club.  We’d been starting to feel that too many of our books are falling into a Women’s Fiction, woman conquers problem in her life with help from her dysfunctional but loving family category, which has not traditionally been an emphasis for us (See what we’ve read in the past 11 years), so we’ll see what we pick next time.

I already posted about our first meeting of 2011, where we discussed Miles From Nowhere by Nami Mun.  Although character oriented, this definitely isn’t the same kind of book we’ve been reading!

What is your book club reading?  Anything we should keep in mind?

 
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Posted by on February 9, 2011 in Book Club, books, L

 

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Review: Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen

Mennonite in a Little Black Dress: A Memoir of Going HomeMy rating: 4 of 5 stars

Mennonite in a Little Black Dress was a fun read.

From the publisher’s web site:

Not long after Rhoda Janzen turned forty, her world turned upside down. It was bad enough that her brilliant husband of fifteen years left her for Bob, a guy he met on Gay.com, but that same week a car accident left her with serious injuries. What was a gal to do? Rhoda packed her bags and went home. This wasn’t just any home, though. This was a Mennonite home. While Rhoda had long ventured out on her own spiritual path, the conservative community welcomed her back with open arms and offbeat advice. (Rhoda’s good-natured mother suggested she date her first cousin — he owned a tractor, see.) It is in this safe place that Rhoda can come to terms with her failed marriage; her desire, as a young woman, to leave her sheltered world behind; and the choices that both freed and entrapped her.

I found it an interesting story. Rhoda Janzen had an eventful life, and I enjoyed hearing about it.

I loved her relationship with her sister and with her mother. Her mother was an interesting balance of open mindedness and of what we expect a Mennonite to be. It was clear that Rhoda and her mother loved each other even while living very different lives. Rhoda and her sister both left the Mennonite way of life, but they ended up living differently from one another as well.  These women accepted their differences, and

I wasn’t so thrilled with her husband, but I wasn’t supposed to be. I wish the relationship had been a little less extreme, but I suspect the author wished the same thing.

The book jumped between the various stages of Rhoda’s life. This helped build the picture of the woman that Rhoda became.

Mostly, I enjoyed Mennonite because it was well written and funny. The anecdotes were great, and the attitude towards her life was refreshing. If I had one complaint about this book, it is that I was hoping for more depth. I think the depth might have been there, but I lost track of it with all the fun I was having.

I’m thinking of suggesting this for a book club read. I think we’d enjoy talking about the specifics of the story, about the relationship between our childhood religion and current beliefs, and deciding if the book had depth or was simply an entertaining read.

I received this book from the publisher for review. I appreciate this opportunity.

 
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Posted by on December 28, 2009 in books, reviews

 

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